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Post by Katie on Jul 10, 2005 22:51:20 GMT -5
Well...I'm planning to have sex with my boyfriend soon...but I want it to be romantic. Any ideas?
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Post by rocker on Jul 10, 2005 22:59:04 GMT -5
Hmm...I wanted that the first time too. But it wasn't. We aren't romantic with anything else in our sex life so it was silly of me to think we would be with sex.
But try to take it slow, alot of eye contact, maybe candles or something (be careful not to knock them over) but I wouldn't put too much into it or else you may be disappointed.
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Post by Masaro on Jul 10, 2005 23:00:14 GMT -5
Uh, flavoured condoms and lots of chocolate syrup, not romantic but definately tasty!
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Post by Katie on Jul 10, 2005 23:01:21 GMT -5
Uh, flavoured condoms and lots of chocolate syrup, not romantic but definately tasty! I'm sure he would enjoy that. |
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Post by rocker on Jul 10, 2005 23:12:45 GMT -5
Make sure he wants it to be romantic before you try to make it that way too.
How long have you been dating?
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Post by Katie on Jul 10, 2005 23:44:18 GMT -5
Make sure he wants it to be romantic before you try to make it that way too. How long have you been dating? Only a few months, I've kind of lost track. |
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Post by rocker on Jul 10, 2005 23:46:50 GMT -5
Haha...wonderful. Will he be your first?
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Post by Katie on Jul 10, 2005 23:48:09 GMT -5
Haha...wonderful. Will he be your first? Yes. I've been thinking about it a while and I've decided I've had enough of waiting. And being a 17(almost 18) year old guy, I'm sure he is too! |
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Post by Rainbow Blight on Jul 10, 2005 23:48:55 GMT -5
Like I said, I think it's not only how you have the sex that makes it romantic, it's also the situation. If you're both tired after spending a long, long day together and curl up in bed, maybe cuddle and kiss a bit first, it could be pretty romantic. Preferably done at night too, and when the session's over, have him stay sleeping with you until the morning. And keep looking at him in his eyes and stroking him and stuff even after the sex is done.
Hm, that's making me feel romantic already.
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Post by Katie on Jul 10, 2005 23:49:45 GMT -5
Like I said, I think it's not only how you have the sex that makes it romantic, it's also the situation. If you're both tired after spending a long, long day together and curl up in bed, maybe cuddle and kiss a bit first, it could be pretty romantic. Preferably done at night too, and when the session's over, have him stay sleeping with you until the morning. And keep looking at him in his eyes and stroking him and stuff even after the sex is done. Hm, that's making me feel romantic already. He's not the most fun guy to sleep with...last time he was talking and started feeling my head in his sleep...then he got cuddly. |
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Post by knoxville24 on Jul 11, 2005 14:53:59 GMT -5
Light some candles and have sex in candle light. Drizzle some chocolate on his body and lick it off seductively. Put some on his neck too, and lick it off. LOTS AND LOTS of sexy foreplay will make it great. Toy around with each other as long as you can before you finally give in. Having him play with you a lot (licking, fingering) will get you closer so he doesn't feel scared about coming too quickly. Just remember to have fun.  |
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Post by loki on Jul 11, 2005 18:54:11 GMT -5
Man i have never had romantic sex or even great sex... I am so ashamed.
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Post by josh on Aug 1, 2005 8:20:33 GMT -5
Man i have never had romantic sex or even great sex... I am so ashamed. Me neither. sucks, eh? Actually, maybe it's my fault it's always crap  Ok now I'm depressed  |
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Post by alwayshavingfun on Mar 14, 2006 13:22:09 GMT -5
use candles and find a low slow romantic song to play, and a lot of teasing
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