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Post by bushspretzel on Jul 12, 2005 1:44:27 GMT -5
I just want to make a topic here so people can console me.
I have this problem where I can't tell anybody anything that I really want them to know. Common and pathetic? Yes. Annoying? Yes. You meet a beautiful girl, the two of you talk, and a few months later she's gone and you haven't expressed how you feel about her AT ALL.
Or, you meet a girl, you're still talking to her, you've told her how you feel, but you get the impression that she either doesn't believe, doesn't care, or some combination of the two, so you try desperately to avoid the issue any further while she continues to talk about other men right to you and it's disgusting.
I can't even be bothered to tell anybody what I'd like to do. I just stay down, stay quiet, and go along.
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Post by Rainbow Blight on Jul 12, 2005 2:09:49 GMT -5
I have the opposite problem. I just talk way too goddamn much. It usually ends up hurting me. I think that it's probably better to keep things like this quite from them rather than going out and telling them immediately to prevent getting hurt. Perhaps you could tell them after awhile, once you're sure of your feelings, but telling people quickly tends to screw things up, at least that's how it's been in my experience.
And as for the second thing, goddammit, I hear ya, buddy. There is nothing worse (okay, maybe getting impaled through the skull with a sharp stake is worse, but besides that, nothing else) than listening to the girl you love talk on and on about other guys while you so desperately want her to know that you love her. I truly, truly feel for you on that one.
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Post by bushspretzel on Jul 12, 2005 2:21:45 GMT -5
1. Trust me, while a lot of times speaking too quickly can really fuck things up, not speaking at all can fuck them up a lot worse. I'm not sure how to explain it, but I guess most girls go for confidence.
2. You are completely right. It sucks nuts. She's always talking about other guys and she falls easy for guys, and I just want to cream my face into the keyboard and shit myself.
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Post by rocker on Jul 12, 2005 2:34:27 GMT -5
1. Alot of people have that problem. I often talk way to much and totally mess up what I ment to say.
2. I did this with my boyfriend when we first started dating. And it was due to the first thing you talked about. I completely paniced and just started talking shit. And he still thinks I like those guys when I do not at all...I really messed up..
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Post by bushspretzel on Jul 16, 2005 16:57:23 GMT -5
Ah, a very nice update: The girl I liked did like me, but now she doesn't. Apparently I fucked up somehow(I have no idea what I'm doing anyways). She said it was over. No wonder she's been harping on the other guy for so long. I suck.
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Post by rocker on Jul 16, 2005 17:45:22 GMT -5
How old is she? Cuz girls tend to go through a 'all I want to talk about is boys even if it is with my boyfriend or crush' phase. At least I see that around here.
Or she is trying to play hard to get by talking about others.
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Post by Rainbow Blight on Jul 16, 2005 22:01:07 GMT -5
Ah, a very nice update: The girl I liked did like me, but now she doesn't. Apparently I fucked up somehow(I have no idea what I'm doing anyways). She said it was over. No wonder she's been harping on the other guy for so long. I suck. Did she even give you an explanation as to how you fucked up?  I've had several relationships, and in at least two of the cases I never really got a proper explanation as to what I did wrong. Granted, one of them was four years younger than I was at the time and the other may or may not have been insane, but it still annoyed me how I didn't get any form of explanation, it was just like "That's it, it's over." |
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Post by bushspretzel on Jul 17, 2005 2:45:26 GMT -5
Rocker, she told me explicitly that it was over.
Entwine, she said that I started pointing out all of her flaws. Before that, she complained to her new crush that I was an asshole. I was just trying to show that I cared and it all got thrown back in my face.
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Post by Rainbow Blight on Jul 18, 2005 0:06:35 GMT -5
Goddamn, how can she mistaken someone being caring and kind towards her for being all critical of her? Hrm, some people just cannot receive signals properly, I guess. Bah, romance is so complicated, I can't blame you for being frustrated with her lack of signal receiving.
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Post by bushspretzel on Jul 18, 2005 12:54:05 GMT -5
Apparently I was the one that fucked up, but I think I'm getting over her now. She's certainly wasted no time in getting over me.
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